Marriage is like Tango, It takes two to dance. The lady has her own moves and gentleman has his own moves. The gentleman take the lead and the lady surrenders to his leading in her lovely moves
The gentleman is not being the “boss” just because he leads but instead it is the lady who makes the choice to follow his lead. The gentleman proposes the step. It is the lady’s choice to accept by following. Now, to follow takes as much strength as to lead.
It cannot be done without trust between partners… But trust must to be earned.
If the lady allows the gentleman to lead, the lady trusting the gentleman... But more than that, the lady trusting herself.
The gentleman has the opportunity to use every bit of strength and skill you possess–not to dominate her–but to take her on a journey. It is a lot to ask. If and how the gentleman take the journey–that’s entirely up to him.